Accredited therapist specialising in men's issues, male psychology and the development of men's therapy.
Men’s Therapy
Male initiation and adulthood
Differences of male psychology
Complex childhood trauma
Meaning and purpose
Authenticity and confidence
Reconnecting with life
Relationships with women
Fatherhood and children
Divorce and separation
Male discrimination
Motivation and discipline
Facing your fears
Family dynamics
Friendship and brotherhood
Testimonials
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"Benj is outstanding at what he does. Without question, the best money I’ve spent on myself for a long time. He's an incisive and helpful guide, helping enormously in navigating complex personal and professional issues. I see Benj as an excellent therapist and a trustworthy friend that skilfully calls me out when I need it. I feel in very safe hands. The work helps me see a way forward and continually orientates me around my authentic self. I recommend him wholeheartedly, and with great gratitude"
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"Benj is empathetic, attentive and a versatile conversation partner. He comfortably switches from theoretical analysis to friendly advice to a frank reality check. This breadth of interaction is very helpful during our discussions. He's helped me appreciate and get closer to the concept of humility. Being competitive and comparing myself to others, this learning has been invaluable, helping to improve my relationships and experience relief. Importantly, Benj has also helped me to improve my relationship with my father"
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"After couples counselling, I sought out individual therapy to work through some relationship issues. Working with Benj helps me understand these issues and many areas of my life, including friendship, family and work. Benj’s process is rounded and concise and involves various ways of illuminating root causes. He is calm and open, but also direct and challenges me to go further in the work. I feel I understand myself better. I'm aware of my feelings, find more joy in life and connect with people on a deeper level"
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"I can't thank Benj enough for the incredible support and guidance he's provided. His empathetic and compassionate approach created a safe space for me to open up. He listens actively, asks the right questions, and offers valuable insights which has given me a deeper understanding of myself and my challenges. He's very attentive and open minded. Sharing my dreams with him had a very special importance in our sessions. I sincerely recommend Benj to anyone seeking a caring and skilled therapist"
Information
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Men's therapy acknowledges gender difference and emphasises male initiation as the matrix of male development. It recognises the uniqueness of male psychology and empowers men by normalising male idiosyncrasy and behaviour.
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The approach is integrative and draws upon various theories. Humanistic counselling acts as the core of the work, complimented with psychodynamic theory, Jungian Psychology, biology and neuroscience.
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If your issue concerns acute substance misuse or autistic spectrum disorder, its recommended that you seek a therapist with specialist training in this area. These particular issues are currently outside the scope of this approach.
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Sessions are held weekly by telephone. Sessions cost 53 and 44 for students. Fees are paid weekly and in advance via a standing order on the Friday before each session.